How to Stay Focused and Find Happiness

How to reach the finish line? Aim low or high? Be happy for what you have right now. Always put the positive side of every thing, always remember that things happen for a reason. Break your habit of overthinking or the chance of blood boiling situations. Well if you hate someone there is nothing wrong of cursing or trash talking unless you don’t feel guilty about it. You can speak your mind sometimes. Loving the enemy or a stupid game in life is hipocracy.
Get busy! Be busy! Do tasks that can burn time so you can get your mind off that makes you sad or mad. Always be brave and never give up. Think about tomorrow, change is good unless if it’s something to satisfy you or can fulfill your needs. Think about family, think of good friends who were and are always there no matter what! Don’t push your self too hard to fulfill the bucket list you made or something you promised that you know you were about to break.

Just stay focused. Be responsible for your own happiness. Just set things right and don’t expect too much from other people. Decide, divide your time, love your family and most of all praise God!



My Marriage Is Like A Good Wine


A barrel clock from

The longer I wait the more interesting my life could be. Been betrayed,cheated on or deceived but I have never imagined these such entertainment in my life (I meant that sarcastically) But our spouse must realize the consequence for their actions. I’m proud how I progressed from being depressed to being content and wise.
I realized married men are always bored with their routinary basis life and so as being a mom and a wife (housewife)
I can’t let karma do the entertainment for me,or take it’s toll for them,when you truly love someone you don’t wish them that, instead you work it out with him and be patient and a little space between you and your spouse. So my marriage is like a good wine the longer we stayed inside the barrel the more other people cannot afford to set us apart. Because what we’ve been through for 15 long years will never come to waste. Just like an expensive wine not everyone can afford and you can have a sip or you can taste it. But you can’t buy that entire bottle for yourself so you just can gulp it up. We will not waste time nor money for delusional and selfish people who believed from false hopes and believed phony promises. We should value our marriage,the family and friends that truly cares for us. Because as the old saying from Japan (my husband and I loved this) “Time waits for no one” but a good wine must be kept valuable though. Wedding vows,joy,laughter,hardships,long struggles,husband and wife friendship and love worth keeping!

“How I Missed Those Petty Things”


   How much do you missed the minor reasons you fought with your partner?
How I missed the days when all we did was to fight over when one of us has skipped our meal or failed to say “I love you” That someone nags you about petty things? That he wants to walk you home and talk about anything under the sun. People do change and things happen for a reason,they say.
    For some reasons I reminisce whenever I’m lost and listen to a special song that reminds of him that time. When that was the time I don’t have to think about betrayal,financial obligations,responsibilities and liabilities. You fought for small things like who wants a burger or pizza or which movie to watch. How do we go back to these times in our freakin mature lives now. I’m struggling and battling so hard. You can completely hate one person or two in your lifetime but on how to go back being an immature teenager? But we must admit, it was the most foolish and funny part of your life. You don’t know hipocracy nor you don’t listen to other’s immature right? Yet it was freedom for you and petty things “is love”